I have come to a monumental conclusion since I have gotten married. What is it you ask. Well here it is.
Female friends are Useless. Utterly completely and totally useless to me. I’m not saying that I dislike females but the realities of relationships and adulthood are unfortunate, and they have led me to conclude that female friends aren’t really of much use at all.
As a guy I’ve been on the other side of the female friend cycle. We’re friends, they get a boyfriend then its totally radio silence. I don’t always agree but now I understand.
Of course there is no hard and fast rule but if there isn’t a business relationship with her or if your relationship isn’t "them" (meaning she’s married or involved ) then there is no reason as a married man to talk or hang out with an unmarried female.
No I’m not a religious zealot, but most female friendships I’ve had have resulted in sex or at least some heavy breathing and petting. So what is to make me think just because I’m married anything is going to change.
Yea yea yea self control and all that shit.
But,
I mean,
But I would rather not even put myself in a position of the possibility of an inappropriate action happening.
I also think of it this way, I would more than likely trip if she had some guy she was just hanging out with, therefore I guess the same should hold true for me.
